Do mean girls turn into mean women?

I don't know why I'm so naive to think that once we graduate high school that people automatically grow up.
I know I didn't grow up right away after I high school, but I wasn't a mean person.

It boggles my fucking mind to meet women, grown ass 30+ year old women who are down right mean and nasty!   They don't give a shit who's feelings they hurt.  These women also have children, daughters.

Is that how mean girls are made?  Do they see how their immature mother's act and think it's okay to treat people like shit on their shoe?

I've been thinking about why people act this way.  This is what I've come up with.


They were or are bullied or controlled by someone in their life and they take that out on others.

It makes them feel better about themselves if they are able to hurt others

OR

She has something stuck so far up her ass and she is in a constant bad mood. 

What I'm wondering though is were these mean women mean girls?  

Is this a trait that people just don't grow out of? 

And......

Why is it really only girls and women?  I've seriously never met a man or boy who acts so hateful!
I don't understand why grown woman act so catty toward each other. 

I have a daughter who is 9 years old and I make damn sure that she will not act like that to anyone!

She was bullied when she was in the 2nd grade and she was very upset about it, and I hope that she remembers how that felt if she even slightly considers acting foul toward anyone. 

What will it take to shut up a mean girl or woman?  

As adults we teach our children to ignore that behavior and the bully will eventually become bored and move on.  But, why?   

Maybe, as adults we should show the mean woman what it's like to be in high school again.. take her to the end of the road and beat the ever loving shit out of her!

Nah, the bitch isn't worth jail.  CRAP!

Anyway, one of my closest friends was tormented today by a mean woman that used to be her friend.  Oh, and the lady is 45 years old!  

So, not much else I can do except take it out on my keyboard. 

I have one piece of advice to mean women;  take a good look in the mirror and fix whatever you don't like about yourself, whether it be inside or out, before you take your insecurities out on someone else!!

Do any of you know a mean girl who turned into a a mean woman?  I'd love to hear your stories!

Thanks for reading,

xoxo

The Eighth Wonder

We all know there are 7 wonder's of the world.  I've recently discovered the 8th wonder.  Well, at least it's a wonder in my life!!

This wonder is more than wonderful, it's amazing, no it's holy shit on a stick I'm in awe.

At first I didn't know what to do with myself.  People warned me, they told me that it would come as a shock to me.  They also said that I would figure it out and find my way and to get used to it, it's only the beginning.

"Ellen, you will love it, embrace it you deserve it.  You deserve every minute of it."

You're dying to know what I'm talking about aren't you?   Some of you know, and will relate to this post.

My 8th wonder is some thing so simple and I hope I don't take it for granted.

PRE-SCHOOL!

My 4 year old son Andrew started pre-school this month, well in Florida we call it VPK.  It's a free program for all four year old children.  It's 3 hours a day, every school day.

Andrew's very first day of VPK, I remember driving home from dropping him off and walking up the sidewalk to our apartment.  It felt weird, like I was missing something.  You know that feeling when your granny panties would work their way up your ass crack?  It's annoying!  Then you realize hmm.. I don't have that feeling, shit I forgot to wear underwear today.  It feels weird, but a little freeing!
That's kind of how I felt that day.  But that was just the first day, the second day I decided not to wear underwear again and it was exhilarating!!!  I've been "free-ballin" it for 3 damn weeks now!!!  HELL YEA.

So what do I do  3 hours a day five days a week?   Actually, nothing really exciting.  I watch T.V, read a book or take a shower.  I've dreamt of taking a shower alone in the house in quite a long time.  But, you know what's funny?  It actually freaks me out!!  I feel insecure, like having Andrew in the house while I took a shower made me feel safe.  That's freaking stupid, he's 4 years old!!.
I got over it though and I enjoy a nice, hot and uninterrupted shower everyday around 10am, after Kelly & Michael.

Like I said, I will not take this new found freedom for granted, because next year I have to go back to work. Although, that sounds awesome too!!

Thanks for reading

xoxo