Of course I didn't come up with idea on my own, I saw it on T.V. There is a new show called "7 Days of Sex".
So I set my DVR up to record it, and I watched it yesterday morning. It's basically about couples who are not feeling connected and of course the man is bitching he doesn't get enough sex from his partner. This is a argument that Chris and I have on a daily basis. So I thought, let me watch this show and maybe I can learn something. It's hard for me to step outside of my head and see Chris' point of view. To me all I hear is, "We never have sex.. blah.. blah". I was actually motivated by this show, the couples make a deal that they will have sex everyday for 7 days. NO EXCUSES. Basically at the end of the week they are more connected and closer. They learn to respect each other and their needs. I know some of you are probably saying to yourself, Duh Ellen that's common sense! I just never thought about it that way before. I would rather freaking take a nap or go to bed early rather then have sex. I'm fucking tired!!!!!!! So I need to get out of the the mind set that it's a "deed" or a "chore". Last night I told Chris about the show and I asked him to watch it with me, and we can take the challenge. Your not gonna believe what he said to me... he said: I don't want to have sex 7 days a week!!!! What the Hell.. why the fuck has he been bugging me every god dang night about it!!!!!!
ARRRR... I thought ok, he must be confused. So I explained that we don't have sex everyday damn day forever. It's just for 7 days. He still didn't want to watch the show. So the challenge didn't start last night.
Below is the link to the show:
"7 Days of Sex"
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What a great idea to have your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife/fwb to watch the show with you. I've not seen it but think money and sex always seem to be the "subject" that starts fights/disagreements with each other. I want to know if Chris does watch the show and excepts the challenge...keep us posted on how this challenge turns out!!
ReplyDeleteP.S...great blog subject!!.
Thanks, I will def keep you posted. Gonna see if you he will watch it tonight ;)
ReplyDeleteTry watching porno movies. Sounds gross to some but hey it works for us.
ReplyDeleteAwesome! Cant stop lmfao ar the cheesey music theme...;)
DeleteI don't fully understand how having sex for 7 nights in a row will make a couple feel closer. But hell I like a challenge and the perks are not that bad either :-)
ReplyDeleteI have heard this as well... It's easy for real life to get in the way, i was worn out by day 5 & seemed more like chore to keep it up instead of letting the magic happen magically. I do feel 7 days of sex does nothing to ensure instant respect for one anothers' needs etc.... That should be evident reguardless prior to a challenge.... Plus, there will always be the, "hey honey, remember that time we had sex for 7 days straight" hanging over you. Hire a hooker, your safer! ;)
ReplyDeleteInteresting comments to say the least lol
ReplyDeleteI love all the comments. It's def girl talk. Nothing better I think than hearing someone else's point of view. I've thought of the fact that the challenge may be like a chore after day 2!! But I know for sure that I don't let anything happen "naturally". I'm gonna give the challenge a try and see what happens. If I can't stick with it, I will go out and buy him a shit load of condoms and hire that hooker. LOL
ReplyDeleteAs of Sunday 4/29 10am.. The "challenge" as started ;)
ReplyDeleteOh yes porno is the way to go. Toys, games, oils whatever works. That 7 days of sex thing, uummm yea ok, boring!!! Gotta change it up sometimes, makes things interesting,
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